爱在屋檐下

I always thought of myself as a house. I was always what I lived in. It didn't need to be big. It didn't even need to be beautiful. It just needed to be mine. I became what I was meant to be. I built myself a life. I built myself a house.
With every crash of every wave, I hear something now. I never listened before. I'm on the edge of the cliff, listening. Almost finished. If you were a house, Sam, this is where you would want to be built. On rock, facing the sea, listening, listening.

There is a river called THE RIVER OF NO RETURN
　　 Sometimes it's peaceful and sometimes wild and free!
　　 Love is a trav'ler on THE RIVER OF NO RETURN
　　 Swept on for ever to be lost in the stormy sea
　　 I lost my love on the river and for ever my heart will yearn
　　 Gone gone for ever down THE RIVER OF NO RETURN
　　
　　在纽约的暴雨闪电中， 有人欣慰拥抱， 有人绝望亲吻， 有人在雨中独行。
　　我喜欢Woody Allen的眼神， 真挚而又无奈， 我们会走近， 也会离开， 会前行， 也会停留，在美好或绝望情感中真实地活着。
　　心理学家Willam James这么写过：
　　“we must let our feelings go, and pay no regard to them whatever. To wrestle with a bad feeling only pins our attention on it, and keeps it still fastened in the mind: whereas, if we act as if from some better feeling, the old bad feeling soon folds its tent like an Arab, and silently steals away.“
 　　他是想说情感不是本质不变的， 而心中的信念才是，我们可以改变自己的生活来改变情感.
　　
　　最近读的两本充满激情的“商业"书 (37signals 写的Rework， Seth Godin写的Linchpin), 充满了这样的想法： 像一个人一样去改变世界， 改变自己。
 　　Life is a river of no return. But who cares. 我们在乎的只是去体会和改变， 以自己的想法。

「Everything about you is my business. What you smoke, what you sniff, what you swallow, it's all my business.
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 I've been using since I was 12! You're also unbelievably stupid, you know that? You didn't give a shit about anything I did up until now!
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Well, I'll apologize for everything but today! Today I give a shit!」



「You know the great thing, though? It's that change can be so constant that you don't even feel the difference until there is one. It can be so slow that you don't know that your life is better or worse until it is. Or it can just blow you away, make you something different in an instant. It happened to me. Build this house with me.」



「Do I still Love you? Absolutely. There is not a doubt in my mind. Through all my anger, my ego. I was always faithful in my Love for you. That I made you doubt it, that is the great mistake of a Life full of mistakes. The truth doesn't set us free, Robin. I can tell you I love you as many times as you can stand to hear it and all that does, the only thing, is remind us... that Love is not enough. Not even close.」



「Sometimes things happen for a reason. You know, something bad to force something good.」



「You know you were dying from the start?
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We're all dying from the start. I just got moved to the head of the line.」



「You selfish fuck. Having me here, trying to get me to like you?
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No, Sam. I wasn't trying to get you to like me. I was trying to get you to love me.
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Well, congratulations. 'Cause you fucking pulled it off!」



「I always thought of myself as a house. I was always what I lived in. It didn't need to be big. It didn't even need to be beautiful. It just needed to be mine. I became what I was meant to be. I built myself a life. I built myself a house.」



「With every crash of every wave, I hear something now. I never listened before. I'm on the edge of a cliff, listening. Almost finished. If you were a house, Sam, this is where you would want to be built, on rock, facing the sea. Listening. Listening.」

我不喜欢住在这房子里第一年和最后一年。
为什么？
因为第一年我不确定你爱我，最后一年我不确定自己是否还爱你。

我们大家都在去往天堂的路上，我们彼此只是在这条路上相遇相伴。因为早晚我们每个人都要分别到达自己的天堂，所以请好好珍惜这短暂的相遇。等我到了我的天堂门口时，我会向你告别，谢谢你的陪伴，你也要向我告别，不要难过，为我祝福。
我们每个人都有终点，终点只能一个人进入，所以要爱，要珍惜，要感激在路上陪伴你的人。到终点的时候要微笑着说再见，不许哭。

不要等到没有时间了才把爱说出来~经常给爱你的人和你爱的人一个拥抱吧~演员都是大牌，包括此后凭借'星战前传'声名鹊起的海登,当然还是此片中的表演更有挑战~不怀好意地哈哈哈哈~片尾众人齐心协力建造房子的场面很有爱~最后建成的成品非常'梦幻'~好想住在那里看夕阳,荡秋千,溜狗狗,或者时不时跳个悬崖爽一爽~^^~