性爱之后

2012-09-16

电影不长，连上前后字幕都只是80分钟而已，对于一部短篇电影集之类的电影来说，显得单薄了一点。或许很多抱着色情片来看的人会有些许失望，相比很多大片，这部一点都没有露的电影实在太干净了。

7个片段，7对恋人，异性恋4对，其中包括了1对少年男女的初次和一对老年人对疯狂岁月的回味；男同2对；女同1对。男同渐渐有了主流的味道，或许是因为有越来越多勇敢的男人出柜。而女同的两个角色都算是明星，这也让电影的各个片段显得平衡。3人游戏之类的没有被放上银幕，导演还是有些妥协。

第一段的场景在世界各地每天都在发生，因为有了承诺的味道，让成年人说一句“我爱你”真的好难。女人的表白“性是一种游戏，参与者都会获得小小的奖励，没有输家；而爱呢，却都很难获胜”，这番理论的正确与否，难以评断，性、爱、婚姻、家庭，这些概念本没有办法划清界限。少男少女那段，我觉得很温馨，没有比这更好的方式走入新的人生阶段。母亲的处理方式非常好，女儿让男孩鼓起勇气走过她老妈的面前，把三个人的尴尬轻松化解，这个女孩继承了母亲的超高EQ。当然，还有几乎所有角色的坦诚，迷惘也罢、下贱也好、肉欲本来就是很自然的事情，不应该被唾弃，不应该成为恩赐，也不应该成为条件。最后的那一段，西班牙男人拿着手枪（或者称作是打火机）把玩的时候，我已经猜到会是那个结局。那个以为西班牙是墨西哥一部分的美国姑娘未能免俗，在心仪的男人面前试图掩饰自己的身份，唯一的不坦诚带来了无尽的苦果。

"Love is not negotiable.
Love is a guessing game,
and that’s the beauty of it.

There are no guarantees.
It’s like diving into a pool of water
without knowing if its shallow or deep
and sure [yeah] if its shallow you end up
hurt and paralyzed from the neck down,
but if it's deep…
[you know] it's a leap of faith…
its like throwing yourself out there without
any guarantees, and that’s what life’s about.

You know those carnival games,
you know how some of them are really hard to win
and those that are super easy and everyone wins
well… that’s the difference between love and sex
Sex is the game where everyone wins a little prize
and no one goes home a loser
and Love is the game that’s really hard to win.
but if you do and you get to take home that
life size stuffed rhinoceros
and it feels a whole lot better than taking
home that little shitty plastic key chain."

What is love? Who can specify it?
Except falling in love at the first sight, does love exist in other forms?
Maybe it's when love exists in other forms that it's so difficult for us to admit or to know that we love the other.

Sex and love are separable, but sex and love are blended
for the people in the stories of this movie. That's why after sex they
argued or talked so much.

The old couple wanted so much to tell their happy and wild sex they had in their younger days to their children, but they were afraid their children wouldn't be able to accpept it. They weren't sure how their children would react to it. We, as children, date, fool around, have sex behind parents. The experiences may be good, or bad. But whether it's good or bad, we want so much to share them with our parents just as the old couple wanted to share with their children. If it's good, we want to share the happiness with them; if it's bad, we wish we could turn to them for company.

But we dare not to tell them. We conceal the experiences we care most from the ones whom we want to confide to most. We and our parents cannot open our hearts to each other. Who should be blamed for this? Why can't we take sex naturally and admit all types of sex? We all hate to be constrained by moral rules and social codes, but they are made by us. Why we human beings torture ourselves?

完事过后，时间指向午夜
也就是通常所说的零点
你终于抽完了一根不能说短的香烟
疲倦，和着不能说出的疲倦
在你的脸上交替变幻

秒针小心翼翼地指向新一点
仿佛你不再属于它们的时间
你眨了一下眼，又眨了一下眼
灯光在窗外一闪而过
黑暗中一种浸泡了的寂静

完事过后，就那么孤单的一秒
你总是迫不及待地从床上跳了下来
在狭小的房间里四处走走看看
空气里全是潮湿的云的味道
你找不到那个一开始就躲起来的

人。就不要去接近那面镜子
它比你想象的更要脆弱
有人说：我们的灵魂会因此变得异常薄
许多次，我光着身子坐在它的前面
有一次，我竟然看见眼前的肉体消失

完事过后，只剩下一些冰冷的液体
或许，它比我们更加接近现实
更加熟悉每一种沐浴露的香味
那个时候我们似乎走得更远了
当它的冰冷停留在你刚刚愈合的身体

外面。夜色抚平了一切
我终于接受了自己偶尔不在的某种事实
在这一秒里我似乎过了很多世
而你也刚巧是赶到了那儿
没有早一步，也没有晚一步……

PS：末两句出自于张爱玲的《爱》

看到verycd上有下载，忍不住重新下下来，又看了一遍。

多好的电影啊。

假如我是教育部长，一定会强烈推荐给全国高校的学生，作为大学期间必看电影之一，

看完还要写心得体会，开班会集体讨论。



又或者，如果我能遇到机器猫，

我会要它用时间机器带我回到上世纪90年代，

去某个中学校园，

找到某个为超重烦恼，为体育考试烦恼，无聊的时候爱哼一首奇怪的歌的小孩。

我会告诉他，

喂，小孩，虽然《出路》是一首很酷的歌，可是将来很多很多的问题，

哼歌也解决不了的。

所以我把这张碟给你，当你遇到头疼问题的时候，你看看这张碟里的电影就好了。



可是，

当我和机器猫飞回21世纪，

我突然想起来，

糟糕，我忘了送他一台电脑了！

这个电影有意思。。有青年那女，有男同，女同，老年夫妻，离婚夫妻，一夜情的。。要表达的是情而不是性。。在性的背后有更大的主题，那就是人与人之间的感情。。最喜欢第一段最后两个人终于坦荡荡的说了我爱你，好温馨的。离婚夫妻还混在一起，但还是不知道自己究竟要的是什么。一夜情的就更离谱了。。一切一切告诉我们的，在孤独的世界里，性带来的快感只是表象，而感情，才是我们真正需要的，珍视的。

　Love is not negotiable. Love is a guessing game. And that's the beauty of it. There's no guarantees. It's like, diving into a pool of water without knowing if it's shallow or deep. And sure yeah, if it's shallow you end up hurt and paralyzed from neck down. But if it's deep, you know, it's a leap of faith. It's like, throwing yourself out there without any guarantees. That's what life is about. Ok, you know those carnival games? And you know some of them are really hard to win and some of them are super easy and everyone wins? It's just, that's the difference between love and sex. Sex is the game where everyone wins a little prize and no one goes home a loser, and love is the game that's really hard to win. But if you do, and you get to take home that life-size stuffed rhinoceros. It feels a whole lot better than taking home a shitty little plastic key chain.